Neighborhood Bully

Posted by: Nikki   
May 2nd,
2007

There’s a kid who lives a block up from me named Jamel (age 19). He has been terrorizing our neighborhood for the past year. As a matter of fact, he may have been the one who broke into my house this past fall, but that hasn’t been verified as of yet.

Anyway, on yesterday evening, he tried to attack my next door neighbor’s kid (age 15). On last week, he’d already beat the boy up and slashed his grandmother’s tires on her SUV, so she’d filed charges against him. And because she filed charges, he decided to come back this week for more retaliation.

So Jamel walked down our street while the neighbor’s kid was outside, and proceeded to beat him up once more. But this time the neighbor’s kid had backup. One of his friends was there waiting for Jamel. And when Jamel saw that he was outnumbered, he pulled out a knife.

The neighbor’s kid and his friend backed down when the knife was drawn. Jamel then proceeded to kick in the doors of the rental car of the neighbor’s kid’s grandmother. Remember, he’d already slashed the tires on her SUV, which is why she was driving a rental to begin with.

Another neighbor saw everything take place and he called the police, while trying to chase after Jamel. The police came in like 6 minutes. Guess they were already in the area, because normally they take like 45 minutes to get to my neighborhood when in essence, their precinct is only 10 minutes away. You do the math.

Anyway, the police knocked on my door to ask me if I knew Jamel’s last name and where he stayed. I gave the officer the information on Jamel, and then other neighbors started exiting their homes to give the officer a list of complaints regarding, who else……Jamel.

Seems like this wasn’t his first time slashing tires. He’d slashed another neighbor’s tires before, had attempted to break into another neighbor’s home, had stolen his own mother’s car, had thrown a rock through the window of a neighbor’s home because her daughter refused to date him, etc.

I knew Jamel was trouble, but I had no idea to what extent. But what alarmed me was the fact that out of all of the times he’d done something malicious in our neighborhood, this was the first time that anyone had filed charges against him.

What’s the use of having neighborhood meetings and Neighborhood Watch Associations if you’re not going to speak up? I was sooooo disappointed in my neighbors. And many of them are educators. They are the first ones to speak out at their perspective schools when a child is fuckin’ up, but won’t do shit in their own neighborhood. Ooooooh, I cannot begin to explain to you just how heated I am right now!

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16 Responses for "Neighborhood Bully"

LaRissa

I understand your pain. People are like that in my neighborhood. It pains me to see people allow other people to treat them and their property that way. That bully needs some serous intervention, like prison time. Hopefully he is on his way..

Nikki, I agree with you. However, I understand your neighbors’ points of view as well. If 6 months ago, Jamel had slashed your tires and all of a sudden the cops knock on his door, you know Jamel will know exactly who told. They are scared. But because more than one person spoke up, it’s safety in numbers.

Girl 2 weeks ago I noticed a balled up paper in my front yard. It was a report card from an 8th grader with ALL F’s. I noticed that the kid lives around the corner. I started to take it or mail it to his mother. I thought better of it.

Disclaimer: I live in a section of the DC area where latin gangs are EVERYWHERE: I saw the student was hispanic and was like, nah…I’ll mind my business. As a former educator I was torn but I feel I made the right decision. Kids don’t just throw water-saturated tissue paper these days! At a middle school not far from me, a teacher walked in on a gang “jumping in” in the bathroom!

where was the gun toting neighbor…yeesh!

One of the reasons that I left Yonkers was b/c of the neighbors and their kids….They believed everything the kids said….and these kids were responsible for shootings, stabbings, and just major drama….when I dared to confront one of the little rats….the mothers decided to try to harass me…HA Little Diva ain’t ascairt of nary a negro! I had to stand my ground and protect my family against those vicious harpies….and ended up calling the police on them!..In the end…they all turned out on the stoop the day I was leaving as if it was the event of the year! Talking bout “Bye Diva…give hug”…Chile please…hug your kid so he won’t be acting up all the time!

The kid was known for retaliation ….and I guess the neighbors didn’t want that angry negro coming round tearing up they ish….Thank goodness you told Nikki!

That was def not “snitchin” LOL

DJ Diva said: where was the gun toting neighbor

Diva, Dave had a mild stroke and hasn’t been as active in the neighborhood lately.

I hope everything gets better, and I’m glad dude’s going get what he has coming. That unruly teen needs some help. He sounds like a wack version of Friday’s Deebo.

Mwabi

what’s up with this lil thug’s family? Are they around? Do they say anything?

Mwabi, he comes from a single parent household. His mother works 2 jobs to try to pay for his lunacy, such as windows that he’s broken and tires that he’s slashed. She’s about to lose her own house because Jamel refuses to work.

One of my neighbors works at a community college and got the boy enrolled with a Pell Grant to pay for his education, and Jamel may have gone to school for about 3 months then dropped out. Never looked back. So now he’s roaming the streets of our neighborhood looking to get into trouble.

I don’t know if he’s been arrested today, but if he hasn’t, someone is going to kill him. My brother told me last night, “Just have my bail money ready.” And a few other men in the neighborhood have expressed the same sentiments.

OMG - That kid sounds like an absolute nightmare.
I would be disappointed in my neighbours especially as they have neighbourhood watch meetings like you said!

Someone who had these things done to them should have spoken up a while ago.

So did the kid get caught and locked up or just slapped on the hand so to speak?
The bit that surprised me was when he got pissed off because the girl wouldn’t date him!

xXx

SB, as of last night he hasn’t been picked up. I’m assuming that he’s laying low somewhere.

Get your neighbors to agree to fly me out, house and feed me for a week and I’ll ensure that he never bothers anyone again. Additionally if I’m introduced to single women I’ll see to it that he performs community service every weekend.

LMAO @ Amadeo! Not sure what you plan to do to him, in fact, I don’t wanna know, but if you can rid my neighborhood of him, we may take you up on that offer.

Just outta curiosity, y’all ain’t got no “Craigs” in the neighborhood?

19 and “kid” don’t even go in the same sentence. His being 19 is more than enough reason to speak up. At least then, he’ll be tried as an adult and do some time for terrorizing folks. He’s beyond house arrest.

Way to get your snitch on!! Bring this up at the next neighborhood meeting. Also, y’all may want to write a letter to the local police department. After all, hes an adult and if his mother can’t get him in line, Officer Friendly would be happy to do so.

Wow! There’s definitely something else going on with him. People don’t just act out for no reason. Perhaps a psych consult would help.

Dang Nikki, this dude has some serious issues. He apparently is very dangerous and needs to be locked up ASAP. A ticking time bomb indeed. It’s a shame that people only want to help when it involves them. I understand their fear but what people don’t realize is if everyone bands together, the assholes will most likely stay away from their neighborhood. Fear is power.

I can see both sides of it. Sometimes, when you have a holy terror roaming the streets of your neighborhood you don’t want to become the collateral damage of his retaliation should he figure out that it was you who told about a specific incident.

On the other hand, you HAVE to start somewhere so that Jamel doesn’t multiply like a gremlin and completely take over the neighborhood. Because if you don’t tell the police or have something about him on record, there’s nothing that the authorities can do.

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